I have been a bad blogger these last weeks of summer. I apologize.
There has been so much going on around here, and it has been so stressful that I have not wanted to really feel what was going on through writing. For me, when I write it is when I feel all the emotions that have been brewing.
My friend Gina encourages me to write, and I am very thankful to her. I guess I am ready to write now :-)
The big news is that school started! Can I get a Wahooooooo!? Amanda and Jessica go full days, and Jack goes 4 mornings a week. I will tell you that I sweated out that first day with Jessica. She was at a new school, and I was waiting with baited breath for a crisis call from the school. Nothing came though. It wasn't until the 3rd day that I got an email from Jessica's teacher. She had had a bit of a meltdown after lunch and started playing the "I'm allergic to gym" card.
All in all her first week went well.
Amanda is another story. Dealing with her depression is harder than any "medical" issue she has ever had. When her shunt malfunctions, there is a clear way we handle it. She has surgery. But now, when she feels unsafe there is nothing clear at all. All we can do is try and keep her safe. And make things around her easier.
Jack started soccer this past Saturday. He had been very excited for weeks about it. When we got there saturday morning, he was very anxious and got angry. He wouldn't play, even when he found out his best friend from school is on his team. He cried a bit, and I felt bad. I felt guilty because I was angry he wouldn't just do what all the "typical" kids were doing, and I felt guilty for putting him in a position to have this experience.
The whole drive home I was very upset and wished that my kids were the same as other kids.
I should have known this was going to happen after what we went through with t-ball over the summer. And with Jack it is different. Jessica and her dance class was hard, but it was endearing and funny because of who she is. With Jack, I expect more out of him because he is the closest I have to a typical child. It's a disappointment for me everytime he doesn't do something that other kids can do. It is very unfair, I know....but it's hard not to hope that Jack will come out of whatever he is going through.
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